Perfect Lies ??? Or Ugly Truth ???

Yesterday I went to our library IRC study and spent half of the day there. Evening time, I went for my friend's PCS class, to support one of my friend, Jic Kie. He presented a persuasive topic,

" Tell lies to maintain a good relationship ". Unluckily, he end up "kena Bomb" by most of his friends and also the lecturer.^^

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"Perfect Lies ??? or Ugly Truth???"

For my own opinion ,if U really love that person, U won't think of lying them. For me I will tell them the ugly truth, because I wish they can accept what I'm and How I'm. Not what I should be....

Ya. I can't deny that lies sometimes can maintain a good relationship. But let says one day , he or she discover the Ugly Truth.. So, what U will do? Most of the time, U will cover the lie with another lie. In the end, the relationship between U and that person is just lies, nothing than that. No trust, No understanding between it.

Most of people give reason behind those lies are "I'm afraid to hurt your feeling/ I'm afraid to losing U". But do they think about what is the consequences of those lies?? One lie can break the bond and belief between each other. Just only one lie, the person being cheated will lost all the trust and feel disappointment the most.

If still not convincing? Let's have it the opposite way. If the situation is U being cheated by your own love. U just coincidently discover the lies one day. What will U feel?? Can U accept it?? Or U will really mad and hate that person the most??? Think about it. Don't be selfish....

U may says that some lies may not be discover until the end of your life, but what will U answer God, when God ask U "Do U feel guilty for all your lies?? If giving U another chance will U still tell the same lies to the same person??" (Think about it)

Sometimes Ugly Truth may hurt the feelings of your Love one. But, at least just let them know, try to tell them in a good way, ask them to understand it. If they can't accept it, then just accept their decision. Don't try to lie on them, because the impact of lying is more worse than knowing the truth earlier. Seriously.... Just believe me. If U really LOVE the people around U, try to be as honest as U can. If the person love U too, he/she will accept everything U are.

"Lie is natural in Human Being, but is up to us whether we choose to lie or be honest."

Anyone can just write down any of your thoughts about this topic... hehehe ^^